Ephesians 1:9-10
And he made known to us the mystery of his will according to his good pleasure, which he purposed in Christ, to be put into effect when the times will have reached their fulfillment -- to bring all things in heaven and on earth together under one head, even Christ.
Life doesn't make sense sometimes . . . a lot of the time. Things in our world can feel very confusing what with all the political, economic and environmental drama going on every single day (not to make light of any of it!). It's hard to always know which views are right and which are wrong. The lines of moral conduct are blurred at best. There's always a cause to support and a hill to die on but, at the end of the day, have you fulfilled God's calling in your life to unity and love or did you let all those causes and hills separate you?
One of the purposes of Paul's letter to the Ephesians was to broaden their understanding of the Church and its part in God's story of humankind. Paul begins by drawing attention to God's gracious gifts given to us in all of God's wisdom and forethought, not the least of those gifts being salvation. All of this we've already discussed. And, in the same way that God has planned for you, another concept we've already discussed, He has also had a plan for the "times." The "times" encompasses all of history until the moment of Christ's return. Christ's appearance in the New Testament unlocked the "mystery" of His will for humankind. His will for us, Church, is to bring Him praise and glory, to love Him, and, in the end, reign with Him. But, not only that, it's also to show others the way to His love, through His Son, Jesus. The Church was created to bring all believers together under one head, that "Head" being Jesus Christ. We are to be an example of unity and love no matter color, race, gender or age. The same unity and love that binds the Trinity together should also bind us as believers. The Church is to be an example now of how things will be when Christ returns and rules the nations and all peoples no matter color, race, gender or age. In Paul's day, the lines of separation were hard and fast. Very simply put, the Jews were struggling with elitism and rules and the Gentiles were struggling with loose morals and monotheism. (Though, believe me, those issues crossed both lines.) Sounds a little familiar. Yes? Now, it's true, most of the time we fail to be such a great example. We have our own hard and fast lines of separation in our world today: political, denominational, doctrinal, racial, moral . . . the list can go on.
This great mystery IS the Lord's return. His return will bring the end of confusion. Questions about correct doctrine will be no more because Christ will reign supreme! Political views will no longer separate us because Christ will reign supreme! Denominational differences will cease to exist because Christ will reign supreme! Societal ills will fall away because Christ will reign supreme! Broken relationships, financial hardships, sickness and disease will melt before the One whose love captured us at the Cross! All things in heaven and on earth will be subject to His reign and rule. That includes the nations and heads of nations. It includes churches and pastors and governing boards of all kinds. It includes you and me and everything that besets us. In the light of Christ, all things are made right.
There's a lot of questions on this earth that we can't answer -- a lot of things that make no sense. The hard things we face in life can make us wonder, "Why, if God is such a loving God, does He allow this kind of suffering?" The Church is not called to have all the answers. Some things in this life are simply unanswerable. The Church is called, however, to be salt and light to a world where many of the lines of truth and moral conduct are blurred at best -- where hurts and sorrows overtake us to the point of hopelessness. The Church is called to be the place where no one is EVER turned away but, instead, shown the love and light of God in His Son, Jesus. God has given the Church the high calling to be unified in the love of Jesus Christ - perhaps our greatest challenge on this earth - and to show the immeasurable grace from the One who calls us to unity. One day, all questions will be answered. Church, you can take comfort in the fact that God holds the "times" in His hand and one day Christ will return and all things will be made right and life will make sense. Fully. Until that day, Church, remember God's will for you: unity and love.
Accepting His call,
Kerry
Tuesday, October 12, 2010
Tuesday, October 5, 2010
BLESSINGS, BLESSINGS AND MORE BLESSINGS!
Ephesians 1:7-8, NIV
Blessings, blessings and more blessings! As if grace and peace and being chosen to have life and every spiritual blessing in the heavenly realms weren't enough . . . we also find the gift of redemption and forgiveness and wisdom and understanding lavishly handed to us. Has there ever been anyone in your life that just seems to give and give and give to you or anyone you might know? Anyone you know who just loves to shower you with gifts without any expectation of getting something in return? And, I mean excessively so! To the point of embarrassment! My guess is that for most of us, probably not. Most of us probably know, however, someone who tends to give more willingly than others. We all know someone whom we can say, "They're just so giving." The truth is, none of us can out-give God. He is the ultimate, unmatched champion Giver!
Redemption in this case simply means to pay a ransom price for the freedom of another, particularly a slave or a prisoner. Friends, we're the slaves. We are the prisoners. And the price paid was the blood of Jesus. His life, the blood that ran through His veins, was poured out so that you and I could be set free from the sin that enslaves us and holds us prisoner to sin's demanding laws. The Levitical system of sacrifices required that something must die, blood must be shed, in order to the pay the penalty for sin of the people. When an animal was sacrificed on the altar, it was extremely messy . . . blood was everywhere . . . it was ugly. And when the fat and meat were burned, everyone could smell it and it happened all day long, everyday at the temple. It was meant to be extremely messy and ugly so that the people would be reminded of how sin destroys life. When Jesus came and died on the cross, He died once for all. No more sacrifice is necessary. We have been redeemed by the blood of the Lamb. The price has been paid and we no longer have to live in slavery to sin . . . a prisoner held captive by the enemy of our souls.
Forgiveness is ours in Jesus Christ! Top that all off with all the wisdom (i.e. knowledge that sees things as they really are) and understanding (i.e. discernment that leads to right action) you could possibly need in this life if you only ask. (Proverbs 2:2-6, James 1:5) These riches of grace have been lavished, LAVISHED! on us! When we mess up, He forgives. When we falter, He forgives. When we fall, He forgives. When we deliberately sin, He forgives. You cannot out-sin God's lavish grace for you! (Romans 5:20) This all comes at an incalculable cost. The One who gave you life, gave His own that you might live in freedom! "Because of the sacrifice of the Messiah, his blood poured out on the altar of the Cross, we're a free people -- free of penalties and punishments chalked up by all our misdeeds. And not just barely free, either. Abundantly free!" Ephesians 1:7-8, MSG
Free!
Kerry
In him we have redemption through his blood, the forgiveness of sins, in accordance with the riches of God's grace that he lavished on us with all wisdom and understanding.
Blessings, blessings and more blessings! As if grace and peace and being chosen to have life and every spiritual blessing in the heavenly realms weren't enough . . . we also find the gift of redemption and forgiveness and wisdom and understanding lavishly handed to us. Has there ever been anyone in your life that just seems to give and give and give to you or anyone you might know? Anyone you know who just loves to shower you with gifts without any expectation of getting something in return? And, I mean excessively so! To the point of embarrassment! My guess is that for most of us, probably not. Most of us probably know, however, someone who tends to give more willingly than others. We all know someone whom we can say, "They're just so giving." The truth is, none of us can out-give God. He is the ultimate, unmatched champion Giver!
Redemption in this case simply means to pay a ransom price for the freedom of another, particularly a slave or a prisoner. Friends, we're the slaves. We are the prisoners. And the price paid was the blood of Jesus. His life, the blood that ran through His veins, was poured out so that you and I could be set free from the sin that enslaves us and holds us prisoner to sin's demanding laws. The Levitical system of sacrifices required that something must die, blood must be shed, in order to the pay the penalty for sin of the people. When an animal was sacrificed on the altar, it was extremely messy . . . blood was everywhere . . . it was ugly. And when the fat and meat were burned, everyone could smell it and it happened all day long, everyday at the temple. It was meant to be extremely messy and ugly so that the people would be reminded of how sin destroys life. When Jesus came and died on the cross, He died once for all. No more sacrifice is necessary. We have been redeemed by the blood of the Lamb. The price has been paid and we no longer have to live in slavery to sin . . . a prisoner held captive by the enemy of our souls.
Forgiveness is ours in Jesus Christ! Top that all off with all the wisdom (i.e. knowledge that sees things as they really are) and understanding (i.e. discernment that leads to right action) you could possibly need in this life if you only ask. (Proverbs 2:2-6, James 1:5) These riches of grace have been lavished, LAVISHED! on us! When we mess up, He forgives. When we falter, He forgives. When we fall, He forgives. When we deliberately sin, He forgives. You cannot out-sin God's lavish grace for you! (Romans 5:20) This all comes at an incalculable cost. The One who gave you life, gave His own that you might live in freedom! "Because of the sacrifice of the Messiah, his blood poured out on the altar of the Cross, we're a free people -- free of penalties and punishments chalked up by all our misdeeds. And not just barely free, either. Abundantly free!" Ephesians 1:7-8, MSG
Free!
Kerry
Thursday, September 30, 2010
THE LOVING ACT OF PREDESTINATION
Ephesians 1:4-6
For he chose us in him before the creation of the world to be holy and blameless in his sight. In love he predestined us us to be adopted as his sons through Jesus Christ, in accordance with his pleasure and will -- to the praise of this glorious grace, which he has freely given us in the One he loves.
I've noticed in Christian centered conversations that words like "chosen" and "predestined" (especially any word derived from "predestination") gets avoided. These are words that trigger debate and even conflict. People immediately assume that these words mean something exclusionary and rob us of our free will. On the contrary, being chosen and predestined should open our eyes even wider to the great love that God has for us . . . for ALL of us! First of all these words are easily taken out of context. They must instead be brought into the context of God's overall character. God is not exclusionary, therefore, being chosen does not mean that He's included some and not others into His great plan of redemption. God never overrides our free will and, therefore, accepting the idea of being predestined does not mean that we submit to a doctrine "no choice." I believe that the idea of being chosen and predestined is seated, embedded, into God's all surpassing wisdom and omniscience. Friend, God knew you, chose you and planned for you "before the creation of the world." He already chose you and predestined you, by the mere fact that He created you, for redemption and to be adopted as his sons or daughters. Adoption is no small thing. In our world, people wanting to adopt a child would give almost anything they had -- everything they have in order to adopt. Adoption is a very serious matter invoking all the rights and privileges to the one adopted as would be given to a natural son or daughter. Think about this! You have been given all the rights and privileges as Jesus himself!
"In love He predestined us..." Predestination is a loving act straight from the loving nature of God. Any interpretation (and there are many!) of this mysterious doctrine that detracts from the love of God should be suspect. In love He chose you for eternal life with Him and predestined you to live holy and blameless through Jesus Christ. And, through Jesus Christ you are received into His family by adoption. This, my friend, is His plan for you and for me. Why? Because it pleased Him to create you, to know you, to love you, to plan for you, to make room for you in this world -- His world. He didn't have to create you at all. But, He did. He thought of YOU and it pleased Him to make room for you in His story! Accepting His son as your Savior and Lord is in His plan for you . . . this is what you were created to do! This is what you were predestined to do! This is why you were chosen to have life!
Now, whether or not you choose Him (free will) is up to you. It always has been. Each one of us on the planet is chosen for creation and He knew each one of us before time began "and He determined the times set for them and the exact places where they should live." (Acts 17:26b, NIV) His plan for you and for me is be holy (set apart to reflect His purity) and blameless (free from blemish) and this seemingly daunting task is accomplished one simple way: by accepting the grace given us through Jesus Christ. This is not a doctrine that robs me of free will or excludes some from knowing Him. Instead, this speaks to me about a God who, before He created the world, thought of me and planned for me and determined that I would live in the times I do and, once here, set eternity before me and created opportunities for me to choose eternity with Him. He allowed me to freely choose Him, and, when I did, His grace, the grace I need to live holy and blameless was (and is) freely given to me through His son!
I realize my interpretation of the doctrine of predestination in this post is a tad oversimplified. This is an interpretation that God has been showing me for a number of years now and, although it may in fact be simple in nature, it doesn't mean it's wrong. I submit that it's just another layer to a very deep theology. I encourage you to search out the idea of being chosen and predestined for yourself.
Chosen,
Kerry
Tuesday, September 14, 2010
A MOST BEAUTIFUL PLACE
Ephesians 1:3
One of the purposes of Paul's letter to the Ephesians was to reveal the "mystery" of the church. In somewhat simplistic terms, the church's purpose was (is) to reveal and express the fullness of Christ here on earth, doing so by uniting all believers no matter our race, gender or background and to equip us to extend Christ's victory over evil. To further simplify, we are to show Jesus to the world so that they may know Him, too. Now, I've had my issues with the church. It hasn't always been kind to me (at least in my estimation). And I can tell you this: it's a messy place -- full of baggage and despair and disappointment and even hypocrites. The church falls short many times in showing the world the love of Jesus. But, I can also tell you that the church is beautiful because of all of those same things. It's those within the church that are broken and know it that define it's beauty. It is beautiful by virtue of the fact that it is the Body of Christ. And, it is in His body that my healing is found. "But he was pierced for our transgressions, he was crushed for our iniquities; the punishment that brought us peace was upon him, and by his wounds we are healed." (Isaiah 53:5, NIV)
Paul is telling the Ephesians in this verse that our God, the same God who sent His Son, the same God who paid our redemption, the same God who saw fit to tie His name to us, has also blessed us with spiritual blessings. And, those blessings are ours here and now. He's not talking about material blessings here. He's talking about the blessings of adoption, forgiveness and being chosen. Friends, wrap your mind around this! You have been adopted and brought in to this most sacred union between Father and Son! You have been forgiven of your past and chosen to live and dwell and walk among those who are called "redeemed!" Don't get me wrong. This is NOT an elitist group in the sense that it's difficult to be brought in. On the contrary, it couldn't be more easy to be included. However, it is an elitist group in the sense that you can ONLY be brought in one way and one way only: through the blood of Jesus who paid your way in. (John 14:6, Ephesians 1:7)
If you consider yourself a believer then you are a part of the Body of Christ. And, if that be so, then you must find your place among a body of believers. You will never function at your best as a believer apart from it -- this is a lesson I've had to learn. Yes, the church is messy. Yes, it's not always as kind as it should be. But . . . Hello! Neither am I and neither are you, but, therein lies the mystery. It's people just like you and me that make up this most precarious and beautiful place. It's people like you and me that God has chosen to bless with "every spiritual blessing." (Even as I write that I cannot fully grasp the weight of what I'm saying.) I'm a believer in the Lord Jesus Christ and therefore one of the redeemed. Like a piece of a puzzle Christ's Body is where I fit. I do not fit anywhere else.
Blessed,
Kerry
Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, who has blessed us in the heavenly realms with every spiritual blessing in Christ. NIV
One of the purposes of Paul's letter to the Ephesians was to reveal the "mystery" of the church. In somewhat simplistic terms, the church's purpose was (is) to reveal and express the fullness of Christ here on earth, doing so by uniting all believers no matter our race, gender or background and to equip us to extend Christ's victory over evil. To further simplify, we are to show Jesus to the world so that they may know Him, too. Now, I've had my issues with the church. It hasn't always been kind to me (at least in my estimation). And I can tell you this: it's a messy place -- full of baggage and despair and disappointment and even hypocrites. The church falls short many times in showing the world the love of Jesus. But, I can also tell you that the church is beautiful because of all of those same things. It's those within the church that are broken and know it that define it's beauty. It is beautiful by virtue of the fact that it is the Body of Christ. And, it is in His body that my healing is found. "But he was pierced for our transgressions, he was crushed for our iniquities; the punishment that brought us peace was upon him, and by his wounds we are healed." (Isaiah 53:5, NIV)
Paul is telling the Ephesians in this verse that our God, the same God who sent His Son, the same God who paid our redemption, the same God who saw fit to tie His name to us, has also blessed us with spiritual blessings. And, those blessings are ours here and now. He's not talking about material blessings here. He's talking about the blessings of adoption, forgiveness and being chosen. Friends, wrap your mind around this! You have been adopted and brought in to this most sacred union between Father and Son! You have been forgiven of your past and chosen to live and dwell and walk among those who are called "redeemed!" Don't get me wrong. This is NOT an elitist group in the sense that it's difficult to be brought in. On the contrary, it couldn't be more easy to be included. However, it is an elitist group in the sense that you can ONLY be brought in one way and one way only: through the blood of Jesus who paid your way in. (John 14:6, Ephesians 1:7)
If you consider yourself a believer then you are a part of the Body of Christ. And, if that be so, then you must find your place among a body of believers. You will never function at your best as a believer apart from it -- this is a lesson I've had to learn. Yes, the church is messy. Yes, it's not always as kind as it should be. But . . . Hello! Neither am I and neither are you, but, therein lies the mystery. It's people just like you and me that make up this most precarious and beautiful place. It's people like you and me that God has chosen to bless with "every spiritual blessing." (Even as I write that I cannot fully grasp the weight of what I'm saying.) I'm a believer in the Lord Jesus Christ and therefore one of the redeemed. Like a piece of a puzzle Christ's Body is where I fit. I do not fit anywhere else.
Blessed,
Kerry
Thursday, September 9, 2010
TO THE FAITHFUL
I've decided to do some expository teaching from the Word. Expository teaching is one of my favorite ways to learn and teach God's word. Over the next several months my posts are going to be limited to 1-3 paragraphs teaching on one or two verses of scripture starting with Ephesians 1:1-2. Expository simply means to expound on or to explain something. It's a fairly common way of preaching and teaching by pastors, although some enjoy this style more than others. Expository teaching is usually limited to just a handful of verses at a time because it would take way too much time to expound on and explain an entire chapter at a time. The beauty of this kind of teaching is that it is extremely thorough (which I love) without being too lengthy at any given time (so, hopefully I won't bore you to death). Here goes!
Ephesians 1:1-2, NIV
In every epistle (or letter) that Paul wrote, he addressed his readers first by stating clearly who he was in Christ. Early on in Paul's ministry there were many who questioned his status as an apostle because he did not start out as the other 12 disciples who walked closely alongside Jesus during His earthly ministry. Paul became an apostle later under rather precarious circumstances. While on his way to persecute Jesus followers, he was struck by a bright light, blinded and was spoken to by our Lord convincing him of his wrong behavior. Although he immediately turned his life around, I'm sure others weren't always convinced of his change of heart and still feared a little for their lives. As time went on, however, he became more well known for his actions as a Jesus follower instead of a Jesus persecutor. But, you and I both know how the enemy likes to drag up our past life with all its past mistakes and find new ways to torture us. I'm sure Paul woke up every morning having to come to terms with his past sin of persecuting his fellow believers. I know I would.
Beginning each letter in this way not only reminded his readers of his status as a true apostle but solidified in his own heart each time he wrote it out who he was in Christ. And, in that same vein, he addresses his readers as "saints" and "faithful," reminding them of who they are in Christ! Paul does this in every letter he writes in some fashion or another. Here's something to think about: what if every time you introduced yourself to someone you added something that spoke to who you are in Christ; and, every time you met someone new you referred to them as someone with whom God is interested? Like this: "Hi! My name is Kerry, servant of the Lord Jesus Christ. Grace and peace to you, _________________, loved by God." Saying all of that would be awkward for sure, but you can still think it!
"Grace and peace" was a common way to address someone at the time, but the Apostle Paul made sure that there was a spiritual component to this most common greeting: ". . . from God our Father and the Lord Jesus Christ." Basically, Paul is saying let there be no mistake! It is from God the Father and the Lord Jesus Christ that I come as I do, and it is from God alone that I speak and ". . . live and move and have our being." (Acts 17:28, NIV) Let there be no mistake, readers! If you consider yourself a Jesus follower, then you are an apostle, a servant, a prisoner, a saint, and one of the faithful in Christ Jesus -- no matter your past!
Grace and peace,
Kerry
Ephesians 1:1-2, NIV
"Paul, an apostle of Christ Jesus by the will of God, to the saints in Ephesus, the faithful in Christ Jesus: Grace and peace to you from God our Father and the Lord Jesus Christ."
In every epistle (or letter) that Paul wrote, he addressed his readers first by stating clearly who he was in Christ. Early on in Paul's ministry there were many who questioned his status as an apostle because he did not start out as the other 12 disciples who walked closely alongside Jesus during His earthly ministry. Paul became an apostle later under rather precarious circumstances. While on his way to persecute Jesus followers, he was struck by a bright light, blinded and was spoken to by our Lord convincing him of his wrong behavior. Although he immediately turned his life around, I'm sure others weren't always convinced of his change of heart and still feared a little for their lives. As time went on, however, he became more well known for his actions as a Jesus follower instead of a Jesus persecutor. But, you and I both know how the enemy likes to drag up our past life with all its past mistakes and find new ways to torture us. I'm sure Paul woke up every morning having to come to terms with his past sin of persecuting his fellow believers. I know I would.
Beginning each letter in this way not only reminded his readers of his status as a true apostle but solidified in his own heart each time he wrote it out who he was in Christ. And, in that same vein, he addresses his readers as "saints" and "faithful," reminding them of who they are in Christ! Paul does this in every letter he writes in some fashion or another. Here's something to think about: what if every time you introduced yourself to someone you added something that spoke to who you are in Christ; and, every time you met someone new you referred to them as someone with whom God is interested? Like this: "Hi! My name is Kerry, servant of the Lord Jesus Christ. Grace and peace to you, _________________, loved by God." Saying all of that would be awkward for sure, but you can still think it!
"Grace and peace" was a common way to address someone at the time, but the Apostle Paul made sure that there was a spiritual component to this most common greeting: ". . . from God our Father and the Lord Jesus Christ." Basically, Paul is saying let there be no mistake! It is from God the Father and the Lord Jesus Christ that I come as I do, and it is from God alone that I speak and ". . . live and move and have our being." (Acts 17:28, NIV) Let there be no mistake, readers! If you consider yourself a Jesus follower, then you are an apostle, a servant, a prisoner, a saint, and one of the faithful in Christ Jesus -- no matter your past!
Grace and peace,
Kerry
Tuesday, May 25, 2010
THE MOTIVATIONAL GIFT OF SHOWING MERCY
". . . if it is showing mercy, let him do it cheerfully."
Mercy. If you say it with a slow and thoughtful approach the word melts through your mouth. Mercy. We cannot live without it. Grace should be like the air we breathe and mercy should ooze from our being. Mercy. We deserve punishment and death but what we get is Mercy. Mercy is scandalous. Mercy is unfair. Mercy is the Cross.
The Motivational Gift of Showing Mercy is the last in the list. It might interest you to know that there are more people operating in this gift than any other. Rightly so. And here's why: without mercy we would die. Bottom line. We serve a merciful God who calls us to His mercy and requires us to be merciful in return. Now, as with all the gifts, and even though this gift shows up the most, there are still those of us who do not score so high in Mercy. Like me . . . and prophets. I talked earlier in this study about how we are to cultivate all of the motivational gifts in our life even though they do not all come so naturally to us. Prophets are to learn to be merciful. Administrators are to practice serving. Servers must learn to Lead and so on. And, Mercy people need to learn the tough love approach of a Prophet.
If you scored high in the Motivational Gift of Showing Mercy here are some things you might want to know about yourself. If the Prophet sees everything in black and white, you see the human landscape in shades of gray. Even if the person has no justifiable reason for his/her distress or trouble, you understand that they are in pain...and that's enough to motivate you to action. You do not apply hard and fast rules or reasons to life. For instance, you would never say, "He or she committed a sin and that is the reason for their trouble. They need to get back into God's word, repent and seek forgiveness." End of story. And, although all of that is probably true in most cases, you know that things just aren't that simple and that human nature needs guidance and love and renewed hope and an understanding ear . . . and time. Time for the human spirit to heal enough to make its way back to God and His word. You know that there are complex reasons for whatever condition we're in and you show God's mercy by being merciful. That's you. You have the ability to empathize with people. You feel what they feel and you grieve with them . . . or, rejoice with them. You are drawn to the underdog and the downtrodden -- the hurting, the lonely, the aged, the ill, the dying. And, likewise, they are drawn to you. You are willing to deal with those people who have needs that most other people feel uncomfortable dealing with. You are generally soft-spoken, a good listener, peaceable and agreeable. You tend to make decisions based on your feelings rather than facts, but that's not necessarily a bad thing. At your best (when you are being led by the Spirit) you take your time making those decisions which gives the Holy Spirit time to guide your feelings. The downside to operating strongly in this gift is that because you are drawn to and attract the downtrodden and the underdog, these same people have a tendency to use you. You have a hard time setting boundaries with people which perpetuates the using. If you were more hard and fast with people, like the Prophet is, then you wouldn't get used by people, but then who would show the rest of us mercy. Others accuse you of being too soft and compromising. It's not the downtrodden you find troubling or difficult, it's the prophet motivated people that exasperate you.
The fact that there ARE so many Mercy motivated people, means we all KNOW many Mercy motivated people. I confess that I have thought the following of some of my Mercy motivated friends: "She is too compromising with so and so...If she is being used and walked on she has only herself to blame for not setting some boundaries..." I also confess, however, that when I need mercy the most (which is often) I pray for it, I seek it with my whole being and I love it when I'm shown mercy. I am learning to be more merciful as I grow in the Lord. In fact, "becoming more merciful" is synonymous with "growing in the Lord." I know this guy who was tragically born without a mercy bone (I'll call him "my husband"). He said as we were discussing the topic of mercy, "If I didn't have to be merciful, I wouldn't be." To God's credit, "this guy" has become a man of mercy even though he operates in the Motivational Gift of Prophecy. To God's credit, he recognizes the mercy he's been given and that fact alone, through time, has shaped him into a person of mercy. God asks very little of us while we're on this planet, but He does ask us to show mercy. "He has showed you, O man, what is good. And what does the LORD require of you? To act justly and to love mercy and to walk humbly with your God." (Micah 6:8, NIV, bold italics mine) Seriously, who among us hasn't needed mercy in this life? Who among us hasn't found themselves hurting, alone, scared, troubled or sick at some point in their life? Mercy. It is essential and crucial.
Most pastors are gifted with Showing Mercy. It makes sense that God would equip pastors this way and I've come to appreciate this quality more than I can say. When you're hurting or suffering or in trouble it's a natural inclination to seek out your pastor, or a pastor. At those times you're not needing to be yelled at or scolded. What you need at that moment of vulnerability is someone who will listen to you, pray with you and understand how life. gets. so. very. difficult. Sometimes correction is needed, but it's always been my experience that God gives mercy first and then corrects and then gently and powerfully restores me to a safe and healthy journey. I have a dear friend in my life that I've known for years and years -- VERY gifted with mercy. So much so that in her earlier years she'd cry and grieve over a bug that was unnecessarily squashed. It PAINED her to thin out a flower bed (you know...the whole loss of life thing). I remember we had an old pine tree in our yard that was way too big. It was EXTREMELY messy dropping all those needles and pine cones everywhere. It always took an entire day and umpteen garbage bags to clean up underneath that big 'ol tree. I'd had enough and determined life was too short to spend this much time cleaning up after a messy tree; AND it was in a terrible spot in the yard. It was reasonable to me. Upon telling her how we were thinking of having it cut down I got a heartfelt lecture on why we shouldn't be killing God's creatures. As it turns out, the tree remained. Over time she learned to temper her gift so as to see some situations with more reasonable eyes. It's this deeply heartfelt mercy that causes her to NOT give out what is deserved to all that live around her. To me, the tree no longer deserved to live because it made my life difficult. To her, though it may have deserved to be cut down, she helped me understand that it is alive . . . just like me . . . that it needs patience and understanding . . . just like me . . . that it has the ability to praise the Lord . . . just like me. To this day, she lives out her stunning gift of Mercy with everyone around her and God uses her to bring great comfort to the hurting. Mercy. It is of great consequence.
Let's look at an example from scripture: The Good Samaritan, the quintessential Mercy person. "A man was going down from Jerusalem to Jericho, when he fell into the hands of robbers. They stripped him of his clothes, beat him and went away, leaving him half dead...But a Samaritan, as he traveled, came where the man was; and when he saw him, he took pity on him. He went to him and bandaged his wounds, pouring on oil and wine. Then he put the man on his own donkey, took him to an inn and took care of him." (Luke 10:30, 33-34, NIV) Beautiful picture. Others walked away but he moved in close to help. What if this person, robbed and left for dead, was you? How badly would you need this Samaritan full of mercy to come and help you? I don't know...I'd like to think that I would help someone in this condition, but I get scared...what if the offenders are still around and I'm the next victim? I might just walk away assuming that someone else would stop and help...and then I'd regret it for the rest of my life. To the one gifted with the motivation of Showing Mercy, I'm sure my reaction is completely unreasonable and makes no sense. As I said earlier, I'm learning to be more merciful. What seems like it should be as easy and as natural as walking or thinking or breathing, isn't always. When I NEED mercy, I only know I NEED it. When it comes time for me to give it out, God help me. Mercy. It is dangerous and risky.
If you scored high in the Motivational Gift of Showing Mercy here's what you need to do. First, you need to know the absolutes of God's word. Seeing life in shades of gray is truly a beautiful thing, but some things are black and white. Some behaviors are listed as sin in God's word and must be dealt with as such. Sometimes people need the hard truth even if it feels like it will hurt them. Second, work towards long term solutions for those you desire to help. Mercy is an answer in itself, but it is only the starting place. Remember, God shows mercy first, then corrects and restores. Third, set boundaries for yourself and know that it is ok to do so. Showing mercy does not equal showing yourself naïve. If possible, come alongside someone who will mentor you and help you evaluate the intentions of others. If you could learn to work with a prophet motivated person and he with you, the balance between you would be stunning. Fourth, if you're not careful and wise with people, this gift of Showing Mercy can become sympathy instead of empathy and where real and honest help is desperately needed ends up looking like enabling. The Holy Spirit will help you know when to be tough enough to make them stand and will equip you to do so, so daily seek His wisdom. In love and truth your gift of mercy will shine! Fourth, and regarding those with the Motivational Gift of Prophesy, learn from them and don't disregard them. If two types of people ever needed each other in this world, it's you two. And . . the Body of Christ depends on both of you equally.
This concludes the study of the Motivational Gifts of the Spirit. Allow me to recap just a bit. The Motivational Gifts of the Spirit are different than the Fruits of the Spirit found in Galatians 5:22. God gives each of us at least one strong Motivational Gift and we are to work at cultivating and practicing the others. The Fruits of the Spirit (love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control) are developed in us by the Holy Spirit. As we walk out our faith and our life, the Holy Spirit will develop in us the ability to exhibit the fruits. Whereas we may not always exhibit each of the gifts, we must make a conscious effort, with the help of the Holy Spirit, of course, to practice them. If you haven't taken the Gifts Assessment test yet, one is located it in the sidebar on the left. Remember when taking it that you must go with your initial gut reaction to each question. Do not labor over the questions. When finished and the test is scored, look for your top 3. If one of the top 3 is Pastor/Evangelist then throw that one out and use the fourth highest score as your number 3. I'm not disregarding the importance of Pastor/Evangelist, it's just that it's not one of the 7 Motivational Gifts of the Spirit listed in Romans 12. Upon looking for a Gifts Assessment test that only covered the Motivational Gifts listed in Romans 12, this was the best online test I could find that didn't take a lifetime to complete.
Mercifully,
Kerry
NOTE: The description of each gift is based on the highest score possible for an individual. You may find that only certain things are true for you and the rest is only true to a certain measure. We are individuals created by an infinitely creative God. We do not fit any certain mold. These descriptions help you to understand why you see things a certain way, why you act a certain way and why some things are more important to you than other things. Most of us will score fairly high in 2 or 3 gifts and how these gifts rank and what God has you involved in at the time will determine how well these gift descriptions speak to your individual personality.
Mercy. If you say it with a slow and thoughtful approach the word melts through your mouth. Mercy. We cannot live without it. Grace should be like the air we breathe and mercy should ooze from our being. Mercy. We deserve punishment and death but what we get is Mercy. Mercy is scandalous. Mercy is unfair. Mercy is the Cross.
The Motivational Gift of Showing Mercy is the last in the list. It might interest you to know that there are more people operating in this gift than any other. Rightly so. And here's why: without mercy we would die. Bottom line. We serve a merciful God who calls us to His mercy and requires us to be merciful in return. Now, as with all the gifts, and even though this gift shows up the most, there are still those of us who do not score so high in Mercy. Like me . . . and prophets. I talked earlier in this study about how we are to cultivate all of the motivational gifts in our life even though they do not all come so naturally to us. Prophets are to learn to be merciful. Administrators are to practice serving. Servers must learn to Lead and so on. And, Mercy people need to learn the tough love approach of a Prophet.
If you scored high in the Motivational Gift of Showing Mercy here are some things you might want to know about yourself. If the Prophet sees everything in black and white, you see the human landscape in shades of gray. Even if the person has no justifiable reason for his/her distress or trouble, you understand that they are in pain...and that's enough to motivate you to action. You do not apply hard and fast rules or reasons to life. For instance, you would never say, "He or she committed a sin and that is the reason for their trouble. They need to get back into God's word, repent and seek forgiveness." End of story. And, although all of that is probably true in most cases, you know that things just aren't that simple and that human nature needs guidance and love and renewed hope and an understanding ear . . . and time. Time for the human spirit to heal enough to make its way back to God and His word. You know that there are complex reasons for whatever condition we're in and you show God's mercy by being merciful. That's you. You have the ability to empathize with people. You feel what they feel and you grieve with them . . . or, rejoice with them. You are drawn to the underdog and the downtrodden -- the hurting, the lonely, the aged, the ill, the dying. And, likewise, they are drawn to you. You are willing to deal with those people who have needs that most other people feel uncomfortable dealing with. You are generally soft-spoken, a good listener, peaceable and agreeable. You tend to make decisions based on your feelings rather than facts, but that's not necessarily a bad thing. At your best (when you are being led by the Spirit) you take your time making those decisions which gives the Holy Spirit time to guide your feelings. The downside to operating strongly in this gift is that because you are drawn to and attract the downtrodden and the underdog, these same people have a tendency to use you. You have a hard time setting boundaries with people which perpetuates the using. If you were more hard and fast with people, like the Prophet is, then you wouldn't get used by people, but then who would show the rest of us mercy. Others accuse you of being too soft and compromising. It's not the downtrodden you find troubling or difficult, it's the prophet motivated people that exasperate you.
The fact that there ARE so many Mercy motivated people, means we all KNOW many Mercy motivated people. I confess that I have thought the following of some of my Mercy motivated friends: "She is too compromising with so and so...If she is being used and walked on she has only herself to blame for not setting some boundaries..." I also confess, however, that when I need mercy the most (which is often) I pray for it, I seek it with my whole being and I love it when I'm shown mercy. I am learning to be more merciful as I grow in the Lord. In fact, "becoming more merciful" is synonymous with "growing in the Lord." I know this guy who was tragically born without a mercy bone (I'll call him "my husband"). He said as we were discussing the topic of mercy, "If I didn't have to be merciful, I wouldn't be." To God's credit, "this guy" has become a man of mercy even though he operates in the Motivational Gift of Prophecy. To God's credit, he recognizes the mercy he's been given and that fact alone, through time, has shaped him into a person of mercy. God asks very little of us while we're on this planet, but He does ask us to show mercy. "He has showed you, O man, what is good. And what does the LORD require of you? To act justly and to love mercy and to walk humbly with your God." (Micah 6:8, NIV, bold italics mine) Seriously, who among us hasn't needed mercy in this life? Who among us hasn't found themselves hurting, alone, scared, troubled or sick at some point in their life? Mercy. It is essential and crucial.
Most pastors are gifted with Showing Mercy. It makes sense that God would equip pastors this way and I've come to appreciate this quality more than I can say. When you're hurting or suffering or in trouble it's a natural inclination to seek out your pastor, or a pastor. At those times you're not needing to be yelled at or scolded. What you need at that moment of vulnerability is someone who will listen to you, pray with you and understand how life. gets. so. very. difficult. Sometimes correction is needed, but it's always been my experience that God gives mercy first and then corrects and then gently and powerfully restores me to a safe and healthy journey. I have a dear friend in my life that I've known for years and years -- VERY gifted with mercy. So much so that in her earlier years she'd cry and grieve over a bug that was unnecessarily squashed. It PAINED her to thin out a flower bed (you know...the whole loss of life thing). I remember we had an old pine tree in our yard that was way too big. It was EXTREMELY messy dropping all those needles and pine cones everywhere. It always took an entire day and umpteen garbage bags to clean up underneath that big 'ol tree. I'd had enough and determined life was too short to spend this much time cleaning up after a messy tree; AND it was in a terrible spot in the yard. It was reasonable to me. Upon telling her how we were thinking of having it cut down I got a heartfelt lecture on why we shouldn't be killing God's creatures. As it turns out, the tree remained. Over time she learned to temper her gift so as to see some situations with more reasonable eyes. It's this deeply heartfelt mercy that causes her to NOT give out what is deserved to all that live around her. To me, the tree no longer deserved to live because it made my life difficult. To her, though it may have deserved to be cut down, she helped me understand that it is alive . . . just like me . . . that it needs patience and understanding . . . just like me . . . that it has the ability to praise the Lord . . . just like me. To this day, she lives out her stunning gift of Mercy with everyone around her and God uses her to bring great comfort to the hurting. Mercy. It is of great consequence.
Let's look at an example from scripture: The Good Samaritan, the quintessential Mercy person. "A man was going down from Jerusalem to Jericho, when he fell into the hands of robbers. They stripped him of his clothes, beat him and went away, leaving him half dead...But a Samaritan, as he traveled, came where the man was; and when he saw him, he took pity on him. He went to him and bandaged his wounds, pouring on oil and wine. Then he put the man on his own donkey, took him to an inn and took care of him." (Luke 10:30, 33-34, NIV) Beautiful picture. Others walked away but he moved in close to help. What if this person, robbed and left for dead, was you? How badly would you need this Samaritan full of mercy to come and help you? I don't know...I'd like to think that I would help someone in this condition, but I get scared...what if the offenders are still around and I'm the next victim? I might just walk away assuming that someone else would stop and help...and then I'd regret it for the rest of my life. To the one gifted with the motivation of Showing Mercy, I'm sure my reaction is completely unreasonable and makes no sense. As I said earlier, I'm learning to be more merciful. What seems like it should be as easy and as natural as walking or thinking or breathing, isn't always. When I NEED mercy, I only know I NEED it. When it comes time for me to give it out, God help me. Mercy. It is dangerous and risky.
If you scored high in the Motivational Gift of Showing Mercy here's what you need to do. First, you need to know the absolutes of God's word. Seeing life in shades of gray is truly a beautiful thing, but some things are black and white. Some behaviors are listed as sin in God's word and must be dealt with as such. Sometimes people need the hard truth even if it feels like it will hurt them. Second, work towards long term solutions for those you desire to help. Mercy is an answer in itself, but it is only the starting place. Remember, God shows mercy first, then corrects and restores. Third, set boundaries for yourself and know that it is ok to do so. Showing mercy does not equal showing yourself naïve. If possible, come alongside someone who will mentor you and help you evaluate the intentions of others. If you could learn to work with a prophet motivated person and he with you, the balance between you would be stunning. Fourth, if you're not careful and wise with people, this gift of Showing Mercy can become sympathy instead of empathy and where real and honest help is desperately needed ends up looking like enabling. The Holy Spirit will help you know when to be tough enough to make them stand and will equip you to do so, so daily seek His wisdom. In love and truth your gift of mercy will shine! Fourth, and regarding those with the Motivational Gift of Prophesy, learn from them and don't disregard them. If two types of people ever needed each other in this world, it's you two. And . . the Body of Christ depends on both of you equally.
This concludes the study of the Motivational Gifts of the Spirit. Allow me to recap just a bit. The Motivational Gifts of the Spirit are different than the Fruits of the Spirit found in Galatians 5:22. God gives each of us at least one strong Motivational Gift and we are to work at cultivating and practicing the others. The Fruits of the Spirit (love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control) are developed in us by the Holy Spirit. As we walk out our faith and our life, the Holy Spirit will develop in us the ability to exhibit the fruits. Whereas we may not always exhibit each of the gifts, we must make a conscious effort, with the help of the Holy Spirit, of course, to practice them. If you haven't taken the Gifts Assessment test yet, one is located it in the sidebar on the left. Remember when taking it that you must go with your initial gut reaction to each question. Do not labor over the questions. When finished and the test is scored, look for your top 3. If one of the top 3 is Pastor/Evangelist then throw that one out and use the fourth highest score as your number 3. I'm not disregarding the importance of Pastor/Evangelist, it's just that it's not one of the 7 Motivational Gifts of the Spirit listed in Romans 12. Upon looking for a Gifts Assessment test that only covered the Motivational Gifts listed in Romans 12, this was the best online test I could find that didn't take a lifetime to complete.
Mercifully,
Kerry
NOTE: The description of each gift is based on the highest score possible for an individual. You may find that only certain things are true for you and the rest is only true to a certain measure. We are individuals created by an infinitely creative God. We do not fit any certain mold. These descriptions help you to understand why you see things a certain way, why you act a certain way and why some things are more important to you than other things. Most of us will score fairly high in 2 or 3 gifts and how these gifts rank and what God has you involved in at the time will determine how well these gift descriptions speak to your individual personality.
Thursday, April 29, 2010
"...if it is leadership, let him govern diligently..." (Romans 12:8b, NIV)
This is the one I've been waiting for...the one I've wanted to write about. The Leader. (Some of you out there will know it better as Administrator and that's how I will refer to this gift throughout this post.) Why have I been waiting for it? Because it's me. I understand it. I can live this one out. As far as I'm concerned, the world would be a better place if we were all administrators. But, alas...not so. And, truly, there is good reason why God allows only so many administrators on the planet at one time. To many, administrators are annoying. If everyone operated in this gifting we'd all look like robots carrying lists around and checking off details, taking charge of every little thing -- then it would be chaos instead of the beautiful order that Administrators bring to the world. I've been reminded and even reprimanded on more than one occasion by two of my very favorite people on the planet regarding my take charge, plan everything out personality.
The Greek word for Administrator or Leader is "kubernesis" which literally means to steer a ship and "diligently" simply means to do or pursue with persevering attention; painstaking. C. Peter Wagner calls this person a "helmsman." A helmsman must steer the ship safely to harbor; to steer it through rocks and storms and other dangers that others might miss or misjudge due to poor course setting or poor planning. In other words, the Administrator has the ability to pursue and oversee a project, event or ministry with painstaking attention to its desired end. The NIV refers to this Motivational Gift as the Gift of Leadership. To administrate something means to control, manage, direct and govern; to lead means to guide, show the way, escort, pilot, be in front. Leadership probably better describes what this gift SHOULD be, but I prefer Administrator because I feel that term better describes the operation of this gift as others see it.
If you scored high in the Motivational Gift of Administration here are some things you might want to know about yourself. You are a big picture person and a planner. You plan everything out. You have the ability to organize and prioritize so that you can and do reach your goal. Sometimes you organize the details of an event or project and other times you organize people to carry out the necessary tasks of the event or project. You know how to delegate. You have a natural ability to problem solve. You easily take charge and start giving orders. You are detail-oriented, goal-oriented, disciplined and work really well under pressure. You are a good motivator and usually won't procrastinate. You tend to be a perfectionist with an adequate self-image. You feel really good and extremely useful when in charge of a project because you believe you are working for the good of a group.
Now before you get a big head, here's the downside of your strength. You can be a little too intense for some. You appear bossy. Planning is good, and, in my opinion, you cannot succeed (or even exist well) with a solid plan; but, you plan ad nauseam. From the moment I get up in the morning my brain is saying, "What's the plan today?" (My sons-in-law will be rolling their eyes at me right about now.) You don't like to admit your mistakes along the way because it comes across as not being in control; and, be it a list of tasks to accomplish or a group of people to accomplish said tasks, you like to be in control. You follow A, B, and C or 1, 2, and 3 and don't leave a lot of room for inserting anything in between. It 's not that you can't, it's just not easy to allow.
Both of my sons-in-law (2 of my favorite people on the planet) have commented on my administrative personality. They are both very spontaneous people with wonderful gifts of their own. I am well aware of how I come off sometimes to them and I know they've swallowed hard on more than one occasion instead of telling me to chill out and stop planning the entire day. Whenever we're all together, the first thing out of my mouth in the morning is literally, "So, what's the plan today, people?" and then I proceed to make a plan. They roll their eyes at me or sigh and shake their heads. Sometimes they beat me to the question; and, although I like to think they're trying to take lessons on making a plan, I know they're just humoring me. But, it just makes good sense to me. Honestly, how do you not think about some sort of plan for the day? My daughters jump right on board with me. I have a good friend who operates even more strongly in this gift than I do. She works for a church as a type of Office Administrator and does her job extremely well. She doesn't miss a beat when it comes to the details. She has lists both at work and at home and knows exactly why she has the list, where said list is located and, I'm certain, everything on the list gets finished and crossed off. The spontaneous people in life find this annoying, but I can guarantee that without the detail-oriented organization of Administrators like this the spontaneous people in this world would not be free to be spontaneous!
Let's look at an example from scripture: Joseph, the quintessential Administrator. The stories of Joseph are found in Genesis beginning with chapter 36. Through a series of bad decisions by his brothers, Joseph ended up in Egypt as a slave and then as a prisoner. Through both situations his gift of Administration came shining through but never more glowingly than when he had to oversee a plan that would save Egypt from a coming famine. "And now let Pharaoh look for a discerning and wise man and put him in charge of the land of Egypt. Let Pharaoh appoint commissioners over the land to take a fifth of the harvest of Egypt during the seven years of abundance. They should collect all the food of these good years that are coming and store up the grain under the authority of Pharaoh, to be kept in the cities for food. This food should be held in reserve for the country, to be used during the seven years of famine that will come upon Egypt, so that the country may not be ruined by the famine," said Joseph to Pharaoh. (Genesis 41:33-36, NIV) Pharaoh saw this to be a good and sound plan and put Joseph in charge. Ah...in charge of a plan! I love it! Try to imagine the logistics of collecting and storing food for seven years from all the cities of Egypt -- enough to be portioned out to all the families of all those cities for seven years of famine. How much food would be needed for all the people? Do we store enough for everyone to have plenty or do we store enough for everyone to just have enough. Where do we store it all? Obviously, we must build storage facilities. Where? Who does the building? Who does the collecting? Who moves the food around? The questions DO NOT end there! The details involved in keeping an entire nation from starvation is mind-boggling. Could YOU do it? God gave Joseph the plan and God gave Joseph the ability to carry it out. Those of you who get annoyed with the likes of Administrators should stop and think about this story.
If you scored high in the Motivational Gift of Administration, here's what you need to do. First, because planning and organizing come so easily for you work on your ability to be spontaneous. There's something freeing about throwing away the list and flying by the seat of your pants. Those around you might just appreciate a little vacation from the plan. Second, though some take to being ordered around more willingly, others do not appreciate your take charge approach. In fact, they may come to blows with you or walk away from the task altogether. At the end of the day it's better to know that you walked and worked in love and humility with those who have signed on to help you. Remember, "A gentle answer turns away wrath." (Proverbs 15:1, NIV) Third, always remember that the responsibility and privilege of being in charge is best approached from a position of humility. Don't play the blame game. Own the mistakes and share the glory. Fourth, and this may sound a bit redundant, but not everything in life can be planned out. Life is unpredictable in both good ways and bad. Sometimes you just have to let things develop around you, watch them fail or succeed, and know that God, who has given you this beautiful gift, is in TOTAL control of your world -- so you don't have to be!
Diligently,
Kerry
NOTE: The description of each gift is based on the highest score possible for an individual. You may find that only certain things are true for you and the rest is only true to a certain measure. We are individuals created by an infinitely creative God. We do not fit any certain mold. These descriptions help you to understand why you see things a certain way, why you act a certain way and why some things are more important to you than other things. Most of us will score fairly high in 2 or 3 gifts and how these gifts rank and what God has you involved in at the time will determine how well these gift descriptions speak to your individual personality.
This is the one I've been waiting for...the one I've wanted to write about. The Leader. (Some of you out there will know it better as Administrator and that's how I will refer to this gift throughout this post.) Why have I been waiting for it? Because it's me. I understand it. I can live this one out. As far as I'm concerned, the world would be a better place if we were all administrators. But, alas...not so. And, truly, there is good reason why God allows only so many administrators on the planet at one time. To many, administrators are annoying. If everyone operated in this gifting we'd all look like robots carrying lists around and checking off details, taking charge of every little thing -- then it would be chaos instead of the beautiful order that Administrators bring to the world. I've been reminded and even reprimanded on more than one occasion by two of my very favorite people on the planet regarding my take charge, plan everything out personality.
The Greek word for Administrator or Leader is "kubernesis" which literally means to steer a ship and "diligently" simply means to do or pursue with persevering attention; painstaking. C. Peter Wagner calls this person a "helmsman." A helmsman must steer the ship safely to harbor; to steer it through rocks and storms and other dangers that others might miss or misjudge due to poor course setting or poor planning. In other words, the Administrator has the ability to pursue and oversee a project, event or ministry with painstaking attention to its desired end. The NIV refers to this Motivational Gift as the Gift of Leadership. To administrate something means to control, manage, direct and govern; to lead means to guide, show the way, escort, pilot, be in front. Leadership probably better describes what this gift SHOULD be, but I prefer Administrator because I feel that term better describes the operation of this gift as others see it.
If you scored high in the Motivational Gift of Administration here are some things you might want to know about yourself. You are a big picture person and a planner. You plan everything out. You have the ability to organize and prioritize so that you can and do reach your goal. Sometimes you organize the details of an event or project and other times you organize people to carry out the necessary tasks of the event or project. You know how to delegate. You have a natural ability to problem solve. You easily take charge and start giving orders. You are detail-oriented, goal-oriented, disciplined and work really well under pressure. You are a good motivator and usually won't procrastinate. You tend to be a perfectionist with an adequate self-image. You feel really good and extremely useful when in charge of a project because you believe you are working for the good of a group.
Now before you get a big head, here's the downside of your strength. You can be a little too intense for some. You appear bossy. Planning is good, and, in my opinion, you cannot succeed (or even exist well) with a solid plan; but, you plan ad nauseam. From the moment I get up in the morning my brain is saying, "What's the plan today?" (My sons-in-law will be rolling their eyes at me right about now.) You don't like to admit your mistakes along the way because it comes across as not being in control; and, be it a list of tasks to accomplish or a group of people to accomplish said tasks, you like to be in control. You follow A, B, and C or 1, 2, and 3 and don't leave a lot of room for inserting anything in between. It 's not that you can't, it's just not easy to allow.
Both of my sons-in-law (2 of my favorite people on the planet) have commented on my administrative personality. They are both very spontaneous people with wonderful gifts of their own. I am well aware of how I come off sometimes to them and I know they've swallowed hard on more than one occasion instead of telling me to chill out and stop planning the entire day. Whenever we're all together, the first thing out of my mouth in the morning is literally, "So, what's the plan today, people?" and then I proceed to make a plan. They roll their eyes at me or sigh and shake their heads. Sometimes they beat me to the question; and, although I like to think they're trying to take lessons on making a plan, I know they're just humoring me. But, it just makes good sense to me. Honestly, how do you not think about some sort of plan for the day? My daughters jump right on board with me. I have a good friend who operates even more strongly in this gift than I do. She works for a church as a type of Office Administrator and does her job extremely well. She doesn't miss a beat when it comes to the details. She has lists both at work and at home and knows exactly why she has the list, where said list is located and, I'm certain, everything on the list gets finished and crossed off. The spontaneous people in life find this annoying, but I can guarantee that without the detail-oriented organization of Administrators like this the spontaneous people in this world would not be free to be spontaneous!
Let's look at an example from scripture: Joseph, the quintessential Administrator. The stories of Joseph are found in Genesis beginning with chapter 36. Through a series of bad decisions by his brothers, Joseph ended up in Egypt as a slave and then as a prisoner. Through both situations his gift of Administration came shining through but never more glowingly than when he had to oversee a plan that would save Egypt from a coming famine. "And now let Pharaoh look for a discerning and wise man and put him in charge of the land of Egypt. Let Pharaoh appoint commissioners over the land to take a fifth of the harvest of Egypt during the seven years of abundance. They should collect all the food of these good years that are coming and store up the grain under the authority of Pharaoh, to be kept in the cities for food. This food should be held in reserve for the country, to be used during the seven years of famine that will come upon Egypt, so that the country may not be ruined by the famine," said Joseph to Pharaoh. (Genesis 41:33-36, NIV) Pharaoh saw this to be a good and sound plan and put Joseph in charge. Ah...in charge of a plan! I love it! Try to imagine the logistics of collecting and storing food for seven years from all the cities of Egypt -- enough to be portioned out to all the families of all those cities for seven years of famine. How much food would be needed for all the people? Do we store enough for everyone to have plenty or do we store enough for everyone to just have enough. Where do we store it all? Obviously, we must build storage facilities. Where? Who does the building? Who does the collecting? Who moves the food around? The questions DO NOT end there! The details involved in keeping an entire nation from starvation is mind-boggling. Could YOU do it? God gave Joseph the plan and God gave Joseph the ability to carry it out. Those of you who get annoyed with the likes of Administrators should stop and think about this story.
If you scored high in the Motivational Gift of Administration, here's what you need to do. First, because planning and organizing come so easily for you work on your ability to be spontaneous. There's something freeing about throwing away the list and flying by the seat of your pants. Those around you might just appreciate a little vacation from the plan. Second, though some take to being ordered around more willingly, others do not appreciate your take charge approach. In fact, they may come to blows with you or walk away from the task altogether. At the end of the day it's better to know that you walked and worked in love and humility with those who have signed on to help you. Remember, "A gentle answer turns away wrath." (Proverbs 15:1, NIV) Third, always remember that the responsibility and privilege of being in charge is best approached from a position of humility. Don't play the blame game. Own the mistakes and share the glory. Fourth, and this may sound a bit redundant, but not everything in life can be planned out. Life is unpredictable in both good ways and bad. Sometimes you just have to let things develop around you, watch them fail or succeed, and know that God, who has given you this beautiful gift, is in TOTAL control of your world -- so you don't have to be!
Diligently,
Kerry
NOTE: The description of each gift is based on the highest score possible for an individual. You may find that only certain things are true for you and the rest is only true to a certain measure. We are individuals created by an infinitely creative God. We do not fit any certain mold. These descriptions help you to understand why you see things a certain way, why you act a certain way and why some things are more important to you than other things. Most of us will score fairly high in 2 or 3 gifts and how these gifts rank and what God has you involved in at the time will determine how well these gift descriptions speak to your individual personality.
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